Monday, October 6, 2025

Yes, I am Fat


This poem is for my sister who is blessed with an abundance of fleshly endowments. It is for my friend who is adorned with the embellishments of surplus. For that woman whose fashion finds live in the plus section. You are beautiful. You are special. You are valuable.


I am fat. Yes, that's what I am.

Please don't try to talk me out of it

I saw myself this morning

Yes am fat, and it's okay

I am fat and it shows on me. You can see it in...

the opulence of my body mass

my body's expansive surface area

them thick thighs, love handles and voluptuous curves

I am fat and the reasons may be varied. It could be because...

I inherited the genes

the medications prescribed by doctors "added" to me

life’s curve balls taught my hormones to wrap me in bodily comfort 

Whatever my reason, this fat doesn't make me less. It doesn't...

reduce my intelligence, empathy or humanity 

break down my spirit unless you try to

make me undeserving of love, kindness or care

My fat is a body composition not incompetence. It doesn't mean am...

lazy

a glutton

dirty

You will say I shouldn’t say that, but please…

don't demonize the word

don't feel sorry for me

don’t try to "comfort" me

Fat is just another adjective that I choose to own positively. So when you say fat...

don’t be ashamed

say it with respect, loud and clear

say it and see me – alive, whole and valuable

Yes, I am fat.